Mungeri Laal !!!

Arre Champion., Tu wahi ban, tera dil chahata hain !!
       A very simple , truthful yet very complicated dailouge from 3 Idiots. Well we all appriciated , enjoyed  when Rancho says it to a unborn baby. We also felt  Yes!, this the way we grow our children, but are we doing that, are we still forcing our ourselves and our next generation to decide their future well in advance ? ಇಲ್ಲ ಸಲ್ಲದ, ಕಂಡರಿಯದ ಭವಿಷ್ಯದ ಹೊರೆಯನ್ನು ನಾವೆಲ್ಲಾ ಹೊತ್ತು ತಿರುಗುತ್ತಿದ್ದೇವೆಯಾ? ಭವಿತವ್ಯದ ಭಂಡ ಬದುಕಿಗಾಗಿ, ವರ್ತಮಾನದ ಭವ್ಯ ಬದುಕಿನ ಸ್ವಾರಸ್ಯವನ್ನು ಹಾಳುಗೆಡವುತ್ತಿದ್ದೇವೆಯಾ?  Is this what is called Planning ?
We all have come across a very famous sentense  "You have got to know what you want and then go get it" . When I first heard this sentense by one of my very beloved teacher, ನಿಜವಾಗಿಯು ನನಲ್ಲೇನೋ ಒಂತರಹದ ಆವೇಶ, ಭವಿಷ್ಯದ ಹುಚ್ಚು ಕಲ್ವನೆ ಸೇರಿಕೊಂಡು , ಸ್ಥಿಮಿತ ಕಳೆದುಕೊಂಡ ಮನಸ್ಸು ಹಗಲುಗನಸುಗಳೆಂಬ ನೊಗ ಹೆಗಲೇರಿಸಿ ಓಡತೊಡಗಿತು. And there I failed! I started thinking/working more about my ambition / dream without understanding my current scope and the difficulties just ahead of me which I have to pass first.
       Thats what I want to say today .., Do Not Map Out Your Carrer !!!! Is that a complex, unethical sentense ? Yes true, but is definitly a practical one. We all have had seen many students, people who were very confident , highly intelligent , aggressive once in their life, who were very confident of what they want to be in life like doctor, politician, IAS officer etc., but do you really see them in that role now? No, 95% of them are failed in achieving their goal and many of them failed in their life too.  Do you know why so, because they are too focused that they would not able to cross a present hurdle in the dream of complicated goal.
       What about the people who are succeeded and are in high colors now ?  Yes, they too had a ambition, but they never mapped it .Do you know what I mean, they never sat down and said "This is what I want to be". ( ofcourse, I am not talking about Tendulkar, whoes ambition was mapped as a cricketer,but there also he wanted to be a bowler but became a batsman. Thats why I said 95%). If you ask any successful people now, you definitly hear that, it is just an accident that I got into this place. They never set any artificial goals which leads to bigger mistakes. So mean to say, rigid professional planning is a major obstacle to success.  This does not mean be a vegabond ! . Choose a field of your interest but do no specific rigid plans on how to do achieve it but have a step by step planning. Work on present factors then lead a better carrer of your interest by having colorful, fexible and multifaceted goals.
         As soon as I came home today from work, I heard the dialouge from 3 Idiots which my son was trying to repeat along with Rancho, caused me to write this. Is the something I thought too complex or complicated understanding ?
ಕೊನೆಯ ಹನಿ :   ಪು.ತಿ.ನ ಅವರ ಕವನದ ಒಂದು ನುಡಿ.
                         ನಗಬೇಡ ನಗಬೇಡ ಅವನ ನೋಡುತ ನೀನು
                         ಜಗವೆಲ್ಲಾ ನಗುವದು ಬಿದ್ದರೆ ನೀನು..
                         ಕುಣಿವಾಸೆ ತರವಲ್ಲ ಅನುದಿನವು.
                         ಕಲಿವಾಸೆ ಇರಬೇಕು ಅನುಗಾಲವೂ !!
ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಪೂರ್ವಕವಾಗಿ,
The complex mind..